How is the preparation for marriage

 You have chosen to get married in the Church; you will follow a preparation for marriage with a priest, a deacon or sometimes a parishioner, married, who chose to prepare couples for marriage.
How is the preparation for marriage?
How many meetings? What for? What are we going to talk?

What preparation?
How is the preparation for marriage? You'll have several appointments couple, with the priest or preparer. These preparation sessions will be held approximately every two months if you're caught there in advance (one year before marriage) every month if you have contacted your parish later.
We also offer you meetings with other couples decided to get married, usually led by a couple already married, or even pension (on a weekend) with other brides and grooms.
What are the marriage preparation sessions?
The first meetings will serve to get to know the person you are preparing to marriage, answer basic questions, but not always obvious for couples, like Why marry? and Why marry at the church?
The meetings will also serve to build up your marriage file. "
The meetings will also serve to build up your marriage file (coordinates of the intending spouses, names of witnesses, baptismal certificate to ask the parish who baptized - your wedding parish can sometimes arrange to apply it for you), which will complete the wedding day, you brought your family register, proof of civil marriage. Indeed, it is mandatory to get married civilly first, even if it's a few hours before the religious marriage.
Preparation for religious marriage serves to think about the commitment you will take your wedding day, including the four pillars of the Church, on which you undertake by writing a letter of intent, which can be shared if you prefer :
Freedom: To be truly free in your consent;
The indissolubility: You definitely engage with each other;
Fidelity: Persevering in fidelity of your love for all life;
Fertility: Accept the responsibility of being parents.
Preparation for religious marriage serves to think about the commitment you will take your wedding day. "
Finally, preparatory sessions will allow you to fully understand the course of the ceremony, and the priest (or preparer) will help you select the text, music, prayers and Afghan Pashto Wedding Dance and Songs (LasVegas)of your wedding mass.
What are the evenings with other couples?
Secondly, you will be asked to spend a few nights (1 or 2, not necessarily more) among grooms like you, framed by a married couple for some years and which may simply like to share its own experience of life. As you see, it is clearly beyond the scope of the ceremony and we are attacking that of married life. Again, trust. Those around you are mostly in the same situation as you, often without, even worried. Some already have children, others are not Catholics. In short, you can deal with all torque situations, you probably do not imagine. And unpretentious, you can simply take the time to listen and to share your feelings, you will come out definitely serene and happy.
What are marriage preparation pensions?
For the most assiduous finally, the "retreats" are available. Specifically, you can go on a weekend in a monastery or in a secular community. In a secluded place for meditation and reflection in reality. Whatever the religious dimension of the place, will always be given the opportunity you find yourself with yourself to relax before the big leap into married couple's life.